It's A Mess, Sis!
A therapeutic conversation geared towards black queer women who have discovered that the life script is not enough! Come join us and if you vibe, we tribe!
Episodes
89 episodes
Is Weird the New Normal? EP. 90
Hello, Hello!Welcome back to the conversation. This Episode is all about being “weird”. We define it, discuss the impact of “being weird” in our lives, like the good, bad, ugly, and weird. Then round it out with how we cope.
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Episode 90
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What Kind of Mother Are You?…to Yourself EP. 89
Mother's Day just passed and we used our recording time to not only discuss our beautiful mothers but also to explore how we are "Mothering" ourselves in life and carrying on their work.So, join us.... as we have conversation about “Mot...
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Episode 89
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Heal More…Aim for Less EP. 88
Y'all are back!!!...and we love y'all for that!... This episode we have conversation about “healing” and “ambition” (define), how the two correlate (aka impact), and how we (cope) moving forward.We make each section clearly k...
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Episode 88
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I Don't Wanna Know...If the World's Ending...Keep it on the LOW! EP. 87
Question: If the World was Ending, Would You Want to Know? This episode we have conversation about “knowing” talk about the impact and how we cope with having so much access to information, knowledge, and each ot...
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Episode 87
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1:04:10
Would You Do the Crime, If You Didn't Get Time? EP 86
Back with a lighter conversation for you all!We've all done it. Thought about something unsavoryr...illegal... a crime and said "no, I could never, it would cost too much, it's too much of a risk...but what if it wasn't? What if you had...
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Episode 86
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1:16:57
Season 4: Is Black Mediocrity the New Black Excellence? EP. 85
What do y'all think?As the title implies, this week we talk about Black "Excellence" vs "Mediocrity" and find our selves on opposite sides of the spectrum. So give us a listen, hit us up on social media, and join the conversation!...
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Episode 85
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1:00:52
Season 4: Friends…How Many of Us Have Them in our 20s EP. 84
BOOM, you're suddenly 25, 29, or 32...or whatever age and you look up and ask yourself, "Damn, where did my friends go?"This is your episode.Alot of us spend our years going through "Growing Pains" at different stages in our...
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Episode 84
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1:19:33
Season 4: Do You Punish Yourself For Your Failures? EP. 83
Ever hear of Pride and Prejuidice? Well today we bring you "Failure and Punishment"...LOL.Seriously, this episode we are talking about.....failure in our lives and the ways in which we punish ourselves, and the impact of it all.
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Episode 83
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1:05:25
Season 4: Do You Accept? EP. 82
Hey Everyone!We're a week late and a few dollars short (we literally forgot to record and post last week)...and you know what?... we accept that!And that is what our episode is all about.ACCEPTANCE.This episode w...
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Episode 82
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Season 4: Let Freedom Ring…EP. 81
“Freedom is never given voluntarily by the oppressor; it must be demanded by the oppressed." - MLK You know when you open something with an MLK quote...or a quote in general, we are about to be on 10! On thi...
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Episode 81
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1:09:23
Welcome to Season 4: What's Your Intention for 2023? EP. 80
Here's to Another Year Y'all! ( Entering Year 4...We 80 episodes DEEP!!!!)And back with our favorite recurring episode where we set our INTENTIONS for the new year, discuss last year's intentions, and share how we intend to cope in goin...
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Episode 80
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Money Can’t Buy You Love, But It Can Help You Love Life EP. 79
Since Time is Money, and talk is cheap... Let's get straight to the point...This conversation we talk about money, the perceptions of it, where those perceptions came from and what money is really about for us personally.Give us ...
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Episode 79
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54:06
The Power Of Being Grateful EP. 78
We're Back!And grateful to be back! This episode our conversation centers around what what it means to be grateful, what we are grateful for and how gratitude has been a powerful tool in our lives. And by now you should know that ...
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Episode 78
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50:32
Just Be A Man About: A Convo About The Perception of Black Men in Relationships EP. 77
Hey Y'allBack w/ another conversation. This time the topic comes from one of listeners wanting to hear us DIC down and explore the our thoughts on the perceptions and expectations of black men in relationships and under societal g...
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Episode 77
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Breaking Chains: Generational Curses aka Trauma EP. 76
Time to break the shackles off my feet so I can HEAL or whatever MARY MARY said... This really should have been the title but we were playing...Randomness asideThis episode is about breaking generational curses, cycles, etc so t...
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Episode 76
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Are You Guilty? EP. 75
Hey Everybody!So, we've all felt guilt about something, right? But, What do you do with it? Do you just let it consume you? What's the right amount of time to feel guilty before you move on? Do you avoid it? What d...
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Episode 75
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1:02:49
It’s in the Beginnniinnnnninnggggg: How Do You Begin or Start Over? EP. 74
I don't know if it's mercury being in microbraids, or what, but there seems to be this feeling of change in the air? Have you felt that you are on the verge of beginning something, or even starting something...again?Do you have a desir...
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Episode 74
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1:02:22
Who Do You Love and Are You Sure…That Monogamy Is For You? EP. 73
Hey Hey Y'allBack with another episode and this one is all about Monogamy...which was often confused with "Monotony" throughout the conversation...Could it have been a Fruedian Slip...possibly...how about you give the conversation a lis...
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Episode 73
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1:20:31
Quiet Quitting or Loudly Getting Fired? EP. 72
Is "Quiet Quitting" the way? or is it just a way to get fired?"Quiet Quitting" is the new term taking over Tik Tok, Twitter, Linked in, CNN, all the media sites for everyone's likes. Some deem it the perfect merger between life and work...
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Episode 72
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1:06:35
Are You Down With ADD….or ADHD? EP 71
Well, well, wel...come BACK!Have you ever felt ...distracted? Fidgety? Unfocused? Uninterested? Described as flighty or immature? and recently felt like your life and personality traits have been read for filth by a tik tok ...
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Episode 71
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1:25:36
The Commitment Episode EP 70
Ah..."Commitment"What comes up for you when you hear that word? Does it provide comfort and a steady knowing? Does it make you slightly cringe with a coat of apprehension? A mix of both?Why?If you find yourself pondering...
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Episode 70
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1:07:54
I Don’t Want To Leave But I Gotta Go Right Now: Processing Leaving EP 69
Hey Everyone!This episode is all about "Leaving" and we're just going to leave it at that.But no, really.This episode we engage in a conversation about the impact "Leaving" has had on our lives, the confusion, the excite...
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Episode 69
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1:09:09
Reclaiming My Intention- A Mid Year Check-In EP. 68
Hey!Are you all still there? ....with your intentions you set at the beginning of the yearYes? No? It doesn't really matter. If you've set an intention and it's gotten away from you, maybe you never got around to setting a...
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Episode 68
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You’ve Got Time: It’s Never Too Late To Be You EP. 67
Hey Hey Everyone!Back with another episode featuring a conversation for us and for you!This episode we DIC down Define, discuss Impact, and process how we cope with the concept of time and the idea of being too late.So i...
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Episode 67
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1:16:53
Make Me Proud: Does Having Queer Pride Affect Your Life? EP. 66
HAPPY PRIDE MONTH Y'ALL !!!!This episode is pretty self explanatory. This conversation explores how being proud in your queerness has impacted your life...so listen in and join us, bring in friends, or just DIC it down for yourse...
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Episode 66
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